Wisdom and experience. It really is a senior thing. I know you can’t help but feel that you have “been there” “done that,” when it comes to home ownership, or just about any other issue.
You know all about the high cost of starter homes because it isn’t anything new. It is all about expectations, isn’t it? If you expect even the most basic ranch style house to have granite counters, stainless steel appliances, and jacuzzi bath systems, you should know that it is going to cost you an arm and a leg,
Tell me about your first home. Most of us have lived in a lot of “crap” houses along the way, but it didn’t make or break us. They were good times, weren’t they? Some of us started out in trailer parks or in tiny studio apartments. What about the rental with linoleum flooring (or even worse, green shag carpets), silver wallpaper, mirrored walls, or that bedroom that was painted purple. Remember avocado appliances and portable dishwashers? Heck, some of us remember childhood homes with outdoor toilets and wood burning stoves. We’ve come a long way.
Houses, since cave days, have been selected because of natural light, airflow, and shelter from the elements. A home is something else. Home is a place where you can truly relax and feel safe.
What makes a house a home? It’s the little things that turn four walls into a home. You can fix up any space to make it homey. The trick is to break free from unhealthy and unrealistic comparisons. A little paint, artwork, fresh linens, and colorful pillows can go a long way. Seriously, studies show that the emphasis on location and physical characteristics have little bearing on your overall happiness.
Unless you work from home or are retired you likely spend less time in your house than just about anywhere else, so don’t be too critical. Don’t confuse the idea of living in the perfect house and in the perfect neighborhood with real happiness. Instead, fill your sanctuary with color, life, and joy.
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