Senior to Senior: Second Childhood

Seniors are often laughed at, and accused of going through a “second childhood,” when they do something outrageous or fun. What does “second childhood” really mean? Is a good thing, or is it just a way for your children to tell you to stay in your rocking chair? Frankly, it sounds like a good idea to me, but the whole concept gets mixed reviews. Too often it is associated with senility or dementia, instead of what it really is, an effort to enjoy the rest of our lives. Fulfilling a bucket lists sound more glamorous, but in many cases, it is the same thing. Of course, there are negative as well as positive connotations to this state of being, and we must be very careful what we wish for. The unthinkable may happen; you may find yourself in a rehabilitation unit relearning the basics. Who knew that the activities of daily living that we take for granted can be stripped away in a heartbeat. Aren’t we all just a step, or misstep, away from a cardiac event, an exacerbation of arthritis symptoms, or the aftermath of a bad fall? Fighting for independence is as real now as it was when we were toddlers. Instead of reveling in our newfound independence, we may find ourself struggling to hold on. Despite advanced warnings, nobody sees it coming. It may be time to think about how you want your “second childhood” to play out. Was your childhood as wonderful as you remember? Can you recapture the ideals, the wonder, and the awe of youth? Perhaps you can, if you don’t dwell on the negatives, and think about what it could be. You can start your journey by surrounding yourself with young life. There are children everywhere. Grandchildren, neighborhood children, school children, church school children, and children at local youth centers. Volunteer. Watch them. Love them. Learn from them. See the world through their eyes. Embrace your “second childhood,” and make up for what you missed the first time around. You are allowed to have fun. You are allowed to learn, and you are allowed to rediscover yourself. This is what a second childhood is all about.