It may be time to focus more
on keeping the heart rate lower, cutting back at the first sign of pain, or
just being satisfied to finish the race.
Kevin Helliker (The Wall Street Journal. September 1, 2009) wrote about
letting go of the need to win, and he seemed to be speaking from personal
experience. He recommended ditching the
notion of competing against anyone else or even yourself, and admitting that
those times may truly be behind you.
Every magazine out there
runs articles on the need for Americans to get more exercise, but there isn’t
much guidance about how to cut back. As baby boomer enter their 50s and 60s, their
competiveness is being threatened by stiffening joints, rigid muscles, fragile
bones and just plain wear and tear.
Nobody wants to acknowledge that exercise in its own right is not the
sole fountain of youth.
The no pain, no gain
mentality basically suggests that you can keep making gains if you just work
harder. Unfortunately this is no longer
true. Exercise is the best thing that you
can do to keep yourself active and able, but you cannot fight age with just
more hours on the treadmill. Older athletes struggling against
declining performances are prone to excess training, although experts are
coming to believe that extreme exercise can actually increase the body’s
vulnerability.
If you can’t let up on the
competitive part you will grind yourself into the ground. You will become stressed out, bitter and
unhealthy. For the aging athletes, it is
loss of prowess that can lead to either abandoning exercise all together or
trying to double up in pursuit of what can never be recaptured. Of course, well
all know that exercise can provide protection against many chronic ailments,
but like any other medical treatment, it can also cause damage. Over-use injuries increase with age.
The competitive flame is
hard to extinguish but when your doctor tells you to ease up a little it is
time to rethink your whole fitness program.
Keep exercising, but listen
to your body and embrace the idea of doing something
new. Taking on new sports challenges
can give long overused muscles a break, while feeding the desire to reach for
new goals. Try out a new sport and enjoy the learning
process, the socialization, and the thrill of mastering something new.